Long time no blog!!! It has been far too long since my last post. For those of you that have been stopping by looking for new posts, I am sorry that it has been over a month since I added anything. Going forward I will do my best to add new content at least once a week.
For those of you in northern climates, I am sure you have all been dealing with the same long, cold winter that we have in Ontario. Thankfully, in the last few weeks the temperatures have risen, much of our snow has melted and we have seen more sunshine that we have in a number of weeks.
During the “dog days” of winter, I found myself feeling the strain of a long, grey, snowy winter. I hadn’t truly realized how much I had been impacted by the weather. I found myself feeling rather “cranky” as the snow fell. I was scheduled to lead a webinar with my entire team and in that moment, I would have rather done almost anything than “putting on a happy face” for our monthly team update. As I worked to get “up” for the presentation, I was reminded on a conversation that I had earlier in my career…..
Back in the late 1990’s the office I worked in was going through a very tough period. We had a significant drop in workload, a high level of turn over, lots of corporate pressure to improve, and the atmosphere around the office was quite poor. Personally, it was very difficult for me to stay positive. I often found myself taking part in “bitch sessions” in the lunch room or around the water cooler. One of the senior members of the team pulled me aside and helped me see the impact that I was having on the team and myself.
He told me that given that I “used to be” a very positive influence around the office, my current negativity was having a huge impact on other members of the team. When my colleagues heard me complain, it made them complain more. I had not realized the negative influence that I was having on the team, and how I was making a bad situation worse.
I was really taken aback by the conversation, and spent a lot time thinking about it over the weekend. On Monday morning, I decided that I was going to be upbeat and try to focus on the positive in the office and see what happened. I kept a smile on my face all day. Whenever I heard someone stewing I changed the subject to something positive about the team, a recent project or something entirely unrelated to work. I was amazed at how injecting a bit of positivity to a negative situation turned people’s attitudes.
Remembering the critical lesson that I learned earlier in my career, I made the conscious decision to put aside the weariness I felt about the long winter, focusing on all the good things in my personal and professional life and my entire attitude improved. I was laughing and joking throughout the webinar, people seemed to respond to the messages and we all went away to continue our hard work with a brighter attitude.
Each and every one of us is being “watched” by those around us, at the office, at home and wherever we are. We are always on stage. We each have a decision to make. Our attitude, tone and behavior can either create an upward spiral of positive energy or a downward spiral into negativity. What type of performance are you going to give tomorrow?
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Bill Roth
“The Success Junkie”
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